Monday, October 19, 2015

HOW TO MANAGE TEMPORARY DEFEAT



For us to always scale through every form of defeats and make a mark in this world there is usually a form of education we need. This education can only exist in the “University of Hard Knocks”; its levels/classes consist of various turning points in one’s life, which is a mix of bitter and sweet experiences and it is the only university that we never graduate from till death.

Napoleon Hill in his statement, said my experiences have led me to the belief that the “dumb language” of defeats is the plainest and most effective language in the world, once one begins to understand it. It is a universal language in which nature cries out to us when we will listen to no other language.

Defeat is a destructive force only when it is accepted as failure. When accepted as a teaching some lessons, it is always a blessing.

There can be no failure for the man who “still fights on”.  A man has never failed until he accepts temporary defeats as failure. There is a wide difference between temporary defeats and failure:
I believe that failure is Nature’s plan through which she hurdle-jumps men of destiny and prepares them to do their work. Failure is nature’s great crucible in which she burns the dross from the human heart and so purifies the metal of the man that it can stand the test of hard usage.

If you go back in time, the so-called failures of the past (from Socrates to Christopher Columbus to Thomas Paine and even Jesus Christ) meant more to human race than all the so called success records in the history of the world.

Always remember that the wheels are always turning. If it brings us sorrows today, it will bring us joy tomorrow. Life is a cycle of varying events – fortune and misfortunes. We can’t stop the wheel of fate from turning, but we can modify the misfortune it brings us by remembering that good fortune would follow, just as surely as night follows day. If we only keep faith with ourselves and earnestly (and /or honestly) do our best.


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